Thursday, October 23, 2008

More memorable times




















I finally feel mostly well!!! This is exciting! I have just come out of 2 sicknesses back to back over a period of 2 weeks!!! This part of Thailand has not been too fun....catching about every common cold or flu. This is my second time to get both a bad cold/sore throat as well as my second time to catch the stomach flu.




























As soon as my mom left, I arrived in Chiang Mai on Friday the 10th and we had our weekly party at our townhouse/office. These are supposed to show American culture and this one was really fun and unusual. One of the families we work with brought over their wii and guitar hero. I had never played wii before nor had I really ever played guitar...so I learned right along with our Thai friends. We had so much fun that Nan and Kwan stayed till almost 11:30 playing guitar hero with us....Let's just say I dreamed to rock music that night which is definitely not my favorite. Here is a picture of all of us playing guitar hero. We have it projected onto the wall with our supervisor's projector so we could play

it life size. Yes we were very spoiled that night ;)









The next morning we drove to Lamphuun with our Supervisor, Quintin, and his son Nathaniel, our friend Brooke, and then two Thai friends, Ess and Ekk. In Lamphuun, which is about an hour away, we joined a group of 40+ university students from Bangkok led by Quintin and Kim's former exchange student whom they met 12 years ago in America. These students were doing a cultural exchange/community service project. We all stayed with host families for the weekend. This house was much much nicer than the one we had had our home stay in...but it did not feel nearly as homey as our home in Maewang. The family had a ten year old girl who became my shadow. I loved her. The other two university students in our house were a lot of fun. One was studying to be a nurse so we hit it off.









It was a lot of fun to be with this group. The people living in the village really welcomed us. Just the fact that Emily and I spoke some Northern Thai and liked the typical food got us accepted. One day all the ladies were fixing food under a mosquito net the size of a room. We went in and joined them and they had us filling bags of sticky rice alongside them. That was the highlight of the weekend for me. They would keep asking us to say something in Northern Thai and then just giggle when we would. It was so nice actually being able to sit around and understand a lot of what was said (though they had to speak central Thai for us to really get the gist of what they were saying since that is what we have been learning. Everyone from Bangkok speaks central Thai as well). I would have loved to spend all weekend with those ladies. It made me feel at home because I felt like I was back in my host mom's kitchen.









On this trip we planted saplings of teak trees which was neat. I just talked to Dad the whole time asking that He would plant seeds in the lives of the university students around us. (For some of them, planting trees and building the dams was a way to gain merit for themselves.) We also helped build 2 dams up in the mountains (or hills, they looked like mountains to me!) It was fun. I was sad that because of my back I could not help much with the dam. I stood in line and passed empty buckets but I was still glad to be a part. Though unfortunately on this trip I got really sick with headaches and spent part of the weekend in bed.






When I came home, the headaches continued for a week and I found out that it was the very first stages of a bacterial infection in my throat....which Emily and most of our team had gotten before me. So as soon as I started on antibiotics that started getting better and I was almost back to normal the following Friday.



Friday night we had another party and we taught everyone how to make pizza. This was fun and very delicious. We always have a great turnout of Thai friends when we teach them to cook American food.



Now last Saturday (10/18) was amazing. First we studied with one of our two Thai language teachers I think I laughed all through my lesson as she humorously told me all about getting car sick on mountain roads. I learned a whole new set of vocabulary. The word for carsick is maoroat (literally "drunk" "car"). We have two wonderful teachers.



We started studying Dad's Book with two of our friends Nan and Kwan (Nan is in the white shirt on the right and Kwan is in the black tank top on the left. And yes we are drinking tea out of plastic bags). They have not met Dad but Nan just started coming to our townhouse on Sunday mornings. On Saturday Nan and Kwan came over in the afternoon and Emily and I started sharing how important Dad's Book is to us. We were going to go over the very first Story with them but they had a lot of questions about the importance of Dad's Book that we kept talking about that. They wanted to hear examples of how our lives had been impacted by the Book and by Dad. I told the story of how my Grandpa met Dad and how Dad helped him stop drinking immediately. I told them how Dad helped Grandpa recover from a stroke several years ago. As I was telling this story Nan's eyes started filling with tears as did mine. So after a few minutes we were both wiping away tears. I am so glad Dad reminded me of that story. I think it meant a lot to Nan and Kwan because it showed how much Dad helps us. We had a wonderful time with these two girls. After we were finished studying we all went to dinner together. So know every Saturday they will come over and we will study English together and then Dad's Book.



Last Sunday I taught at our morning meeting. That was very difficult because our meetings are mostly in Thai. I spent several hours preparing so that I would explain the story in a way that was appropriate for Thai culture. Our friend Ekk helped me teach. I ended up illustrating the story and showed the drawings as I told about Dad's Son's helpers and His instructions for them. This helped a lot. Nan was so sweet; she told me that my drawings helped her understand. Overall it seemed to go well. I was so glad to have Nan and a few other friends there. Then we ended up spending most of the day with Nan and other friends.

So that brings us to this week. Monday we got to go sightseeing with Kru Sangchan and Ajan Nikom the English Teacher from the Thraymit school in the village and her husband who is the Principal. This was a wonderful morning and I was exhausted when we got home. That night I got very sick with the stomach flu. Emily and I were supposed to go to a city about 4 hours away with our friend Biew to visit her family. Unfortunately I could not go so I stayed home alone....half our team also got this as well. Thankfully by Wednesday I was feeling a little better so I was able to take my bike and go get food. Emily had stocked me up with sprite and various crackers before she left. It was nice to get a good few days to rest but I was really missing being around people. Finally Saturday was the first day I was really able to get together with Thai friends though still a little under the weather. Oh it was amazing. I actually felt like I was doing something!!!





Well, that is what I have been up to for two weeks. I am really excited for this week. Most of our friends have been out of town this past week/weekend and they all returned either today or will return tomorrow. We have some relationships with girls that have really taken off and it feels like we are at the point where we can have deep heart to heart discussions. I have been counting down the days till my friend Toey arrives. Before she left on her trip she stopped by to tell Emily and me how much our friendship meant to her. Please tell Dad about Toey. I feel like she is the friend I can talk with the most and I have grown to care about her a lot. I think we will be getting together with her this coming Tuesday.




Thank you for your encouragement and support. I greatly appreciate it.




Love,


Lydia

Friday, October 10, 2008

The joys of showing off Thailand


















Our teaching term finished at the university, internet went out (so no updates), we continued teaching out in the village and then at Baan Kanoon (our townhouse). Then the most exciting part was a plane from the states bringing visitors! It was great. Emily and I flew down to Bangkok to meet them. We spent a few days in BKK with our former exchange student, Ta, whom we've known since I was 10. Then Ta and her sister took us to Koh Samet, an island where we got to do some much needed relaxing. After those very few days of rest we were off to Chiang Mai. I thought that it would be a huge help to what we were doing to have visitors from the states join us in our work, but I had no clue how much of an impact it would make. Here are a few of the things we did:









We went to one of the highest places in Chiang Mai, Doi Suthep and got to Talk to Dad over the city of Chiang Mai. It was beautiful up there but there was a real heaviness. We are hoping for a breakthrough and this will not come unless we Talk to Dad. Please join us in this. I know that you cannot physically join us here as we lift Chiang Mai up, but what you Say to Dad on our behalf can really have lasting effects.











We took them to Maewang where Emily and I lived our first month as well as where we continue to teach. This time was amazing. Before she came, my mom sent an email out to friends and family in the States asking any kids if they could write a letter to one of the schools. We thought we would maybe have two letters to give to each school, but we had an amazing response. We were able to give our 33 letters written by American kids to our 5th and 6th grade students at Sarapee and Thramit schools. This picture shows 5 kids and their teacher at Sarapee all holding letters written by the Redman family. Each one of the Redman kids wrote a letter and Mrs. Redman wrote one as well. My mom took pictures of each Thai kid with their letter and Emily and I will take this opportunity to teach the students how to write letters back.




The kids were overjoyed when we brought out a huge stack of letters. There were squeals of delight. We tried to give boys letters to boys and girls letters to girls, but the girls wasted no time in seeking out the cute pictures of American boys that fellow students had. Yes, I think my brother, Luke, my cousin Sean, and others like Caleb Spence and Eli Redman might have quite the following of devoted girls after this. Watch out guys if you all of a sudden start getting letters from girls. I promise I gave your letters to boys but these girls are quite determined ;)



It was so neat to be able to give my siblings' letters out. Here is a picture of my mom and me with the two kids who received Grace and Luke's letters. Also in the other picture I am reading my brother's letter to Flook, who is in 6th grade and is a novice (too young to be an official monk).

In this movie it shows the kids saluting and singing a song in honor of the King and Queen. Yes, these are dogs that live at the temple/school and here they are whining in the middle of the song. They also attend English class along witht he kids. Though quite a distraction it provides a lot of laughs.






Probably one of the highlights for all of us was getting to take them to my host parent's house. It was amazing. Dad did a lot through them being there. My mom was able to share some things with my host dad while I translated for her. With this culture being very centered around family ties I think it gave me a lot of credibility having my mom there. My host dad proudly showed us around the village teaching us how rice grows (sorry our camera died right as we got to the breathtaking views of the ricefields in front of a gorgeous mountain backdrop). My host parents made sure to tell my mom exactly how they took care of me and even tattled on me too. It was very sweet and endearing. Here is my host mom and my mom with Emily and me.




We also got to show them Baan Kanoon where we teach. We had the best showing of people
basically on the three events they were able to be at. It was amazing. The conversations we had were wonderful. And we had so many different levels of students show up to our English class on Saturday that Emily and I could not have taught alone. And my mom even got to use her expertise and teach Spanish to our friend Ham at our Wednesday English conversation time.

We had some amazing times. I loved getting to share my passion for what we are doing here.

Here are a few things you can talk to Dad about:

-Our friend Nan is asking a lot about Dad and even came to our place last Sunday. Nan has become a very close friend of ours and we are hoping she will meet Dad.

-There is a lot going on in Maewang. Emily and the rest of the people we work with just had a dental clinic at Thramit school. It seems like more doors are open because of Emily and I living and teaching there.

-Emily and I are on break now from both the university and the village schools where we teach. We are talking to Dad about what we should do during this time. There are many opprotunities but we want to choose the best ones. I have already started studying the best Book with our friend Biew, and Emily and I will be studying with a few more girls as well. Please talk to Dad about this.

-We have known Ta for 11 years now since we became friends with her while she was getting her Master's in St. Louis. Please talk to Dad about her. Neither she nor her family have met Him. They are so sweet and very very dear to us.


And lastly some funnies:

-How do you find a code word for "Don't eat the small intestines in your soup!" without your Thai friend who speaks perfect English knowing what you are warning your mom and friend about?

-How do you translate the game Yahtzee? Let's just say it takes the game to a whole new level.

-How do you keep a straight face while watching your mom's reaction to the crazy driving in Bangkok? I think they went on an on about how they couldn't believe how the motorcycles wove in and out of trafic or the little toddlers holding on to their moms for dear life so they didn't fall off in the middle of traffic.